🏠 Bend, OR Not Your Ex Lover is a Latina, femme, glitter-rock band based in Bend, Oregon. NYXL began their journey in a neon-lit garage, where late-night jam sessions shaped their sound and strengthened their sisterhood. Their music tells the story of love and heartbreak with a grunge-pop vibe - and lots of sparkle. This band brings together the talents of KOURTNi (lead vocals, lyricist, and rhythm guitar), JULiE (lead guitar and violin), REYA (bass and vocals), and KiKi (drums).